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Amber Alerts on ActiveRain & Tips on How to Stay Safe


As a community we have all been shaken by the two ActiveRain Amber Alerts that were posted these past few weeks. The first Amber Alert came from Active Rain member Monica Ray, whose 16 year old daughter Kelsey Ray went missing on May 30th. Within a couple of days our hearts sank even deeper when news started spreading that Active Rain member Sarah Hall Weigand went missing from her home. The effort that families, friends and communities put into finding Kelsey and Sarah did not go in vain, as we all celebrated with relief when we recieved news that both of them were found.

Incidences like these somewhat force us to reevaluate our own safety, and make us think “what if…”? We all know that being a Realtor is indeed a dangerous job. Realtors are constantly exposing themselves to new people, some of whom have questionable intentions. Showing new properties and holding open houses are a critical business practice, yet when Realtors do this alone, they are quite vulnerable to exposing themselves to dangerous situations, kidnapping or even injuries from unsafe houses.

To make matters more complicated we also have family and friends who worry about the dangers of this profession. All of us have had family worry about our safety one time or another. When we saw the Amber Alerts last week, we were all worried about Sarah and Kelsey, yet we could not even imagine what their family and close friends must have gone through.

Although there is no way we can fully prevent the dangers out there, there are ways we can prepare for them. Here are a few tips on staying safe while at work:

  • Take a look at NAR’s safety page http://www.realtor.org/about_nar/safety 
  • Have safety seminars at your office and have them regularly. Some of that knowledge needs to be freshened up!
  • See if self-defense classes are right for you, even if you go just to learn a few critical defense moves.
  • Follow our blog or twitter account (@mymoby) for regular and up-to-date tips on staying safe as a Realtor.
  • Have a look at Moby, www.mymoby.com, and see if you want to download the free BlackBerry safety application (we are currently in our final Beta testing phase). Moby was designed for these exact situations.
  • Last but not least; always trust your instincts! This is a very important tip that a lot of us overlook. We override our gut instinct because we worry that we will lose a deal or offend the other person. If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, excuse yourself for 5-10 min to reevaluate what is going on and check to see if you should really go back in.

We couldn’t be happier that both Kelsey and Sarah were found safely, and our thoughts go out to their families and loved ones.

Take care and be safe everyone!

The Moby Team

If you have any safety tips you would like to share, please feel free to add them in the comment section

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Great post. Thank you for the links and helpful information.

Posted by Todd & Devona Garrigus, Broker / REALTORS® (Garrigus Real Estate) about 7 years ago

I think it's great that you are putting this information right in our faces. We all know it is out there, but so many people are so unwilling to go look for it and they never consider themselves at risk. When you put it right out there for everyone to see I think a lot more people are going to look at all of the safety precautions out there.

Posted by Von Richcreek, SNP (Crye-Leike, Realtors) about 7 years ago